J.  Adrian Hope (G 69-76) looks back on events.
          
“I was  head boy on Grindal when Tony and Elizabeth Cotes were in charge. They both  came as guests to my wedding back in 2000, when Tony said the Grace in Latin, a  memorable occasion! After I left St Bees, I attended Newcastle Polytechnic and  gained a degree in Business Studies before entering the family business  (soft-furnishing retail shops). I had previously joined a large fabric  manufacturer, Rosebys in Sheffield, and then returned to the family firm full  of ideas. My late father, J. Stanley Hope, who will be known to many OSBs as  the instructor and coach of Clay Shooting, a fifth form pursuit for the CCF,  for over twenty years, had another agenda for me. He was a gentleman of the old  school of retailing and change was very uncomfortable for him. After many ‘boardroom  spats’, I resigned amicably after five years. I now look back with great  nostalgia, but at 25 you think that you know best, whereas in reality you often  know very little.
I then  went into the hospitality business along with a chef and opened a wine bar and  restaurant and eventually night clubs and music venues. We then sold out and  went our own ways. I ended up in London working with restaurants, then into a  city business, London Wine Bars Ltd,. The call of Cumbria and the Lakes brought  me home and I worked for Jennings Bros PLC at Cockermouth developing their managed  house division. I had ten very happy years with them prior to their takeover by  Marstons.
My next  venture was to operate the Westlands Hotel Nightclub and Forum at Branthwaite,  Workington. The business was Irish-owned and board meetings were never dull and  usually took place in a pub with plenty of ‘the black stuff’. Very little was  resolved though! I brokered the sale of the Westlands to a Manchester  consortium, who eventually bulldozed the site. Who knows why?
In 2001 I  remarried for the second time, to Jill, the ex-General Manager of the  Westlands. In need of useful employment, I returned to my first trade,  soft-furnishings, working from home with pattern books and specialising in curtains,  loose covers, and upholstery. My home was near Kirkbride and we had  outbuildings which we converted to storage and work space. I was subsequently  approached by Plumbs of Preston to act as their agent in Cumbria, Glasgow and  Edinburgh, and this proved a very rewarding collaboration.
In December  2013 I was diagnosed with a brain tumour and had emergency surgery at the RVI  Newcastle. I remain eternally grateful to the NHS and have raised money for the  Northern Centre for Cancer Care at the Freeman Hospital.
The  long-term fall out from my illness has been dramatic. I was forced into early  retirement, no longer able to spell or handle money. Following an amicable  divorce, I sold my home and moved back to Carlisle. Having no driving licence, it  was the only way forward. My sister and aged mother, along with my ex-wife, act  as my carers. I consider myself blessed and would change nothing. Unfortunately,  the cancer re-emerged in 2021 and was successfully treated by a new procedure  called Static Radio Therapy.
My St Bees days are at the forefront of my memories. I was shaped and  formed there into the person I am today. The likes of Sam ‘Lem’ Parkinson,  ANR Dearle, David ‘Vas’ Lyall, Brian Howard, Tony Cotes and Alan Francis were  truly men among men! How lucky we were and didn’t realise it at the time.”